let me get right into it. first, happy father’s day to all the responsible fathers out there who go the extra mile for their love ones; Â those who work two jobs in order to put food on the table. Â Happy father’s day 2 James, Les and all the fathers who post here on Manic Expression. Â Yes, Happy father’s day. Â This blog is not for you.
This Blog is made for those men who have 12 kids with four or five women before they reach the age of 30. Â They do not have a job to support themselves, let along the children they have made; men who run away from their responsibilities in raising their first child-yet would go out there and have sex with no protection and have yet another child knowing full well they can’t even take care of the first one. Â This is for you, and I got a clear message for you. GROW UP.
There are too many children out there who are growing up without a father, and that is simply unacceptable. Â Yes, there are many reasons for this, but not one of theseÂ reasons can beÂ justified. Â I was in jail-okay why and what are your plans once you get out? Â Will you look for work, or will you go back to your old ways knowing it will lead you back in jail(only this time it will be a longer stay-maybe a permeant one). Â Are saying you are trying but do not make enough money to support both you and your child? Fine, but why are you going out there making more babies? Â Do you think not using condom for sex isÂ more important to you than critical thinking? Â Come on you already know you can’t afford the first child. Â Why do you have to risk making another?
Look, all ranting aside, more and more Boys (yea Boys) are out there are leaving mothers without a father’s strong support(and it is hurting your youth in more way than one). Â The impact can be felt all across the board, and it need to stop. Â Your child needs all the support from both you and their mothers. Â They need to know that they are loved. Â In short, you boys need to become men, and as men, you need to step upÂ and be responsible for the sake of your family. Â Do I look for a pat in the back? Â A real father doesn’t look for that. Â Your actions speak for themselves. Be a man. Â Be a Dad Â Be responsible. Â Too many kids are growing up with an impression that woman are nothing more than a piece of meat. Â ThisÂ shows little or no respect for their elders. Â Part of that is they pick up from people they are surrounded by, or in some cases, not sorrounded by. You need to understand; no must understand that most of your children learn a lot just by your actions alone to the point they believe that it is okay to call woman bitches, and to do drugs or take from another. Â You cant say you don’t want your kid to do what you are doing whileÂ you are still doing it. Â It doesn’t work that way. Like I said, they learn from your actions. Â IfÂ you are still doing the same stupid things,Â the more likely your child will follow your footsteps wether you want them to or not.
Key world: Roll-model. Â We do not have enough responsible Fathers-especially with the black community-and that needs to change and now. Â That is my opinion what is yours? Express yourselves.
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